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1650 Waiver Packet

DUI in California, but live out of State? Remove a Suspension of Your Driver’s License if You Receive a DUI in California with a 1650 Waiver Packet.

Tom Wilson Counseling Center receives many phone calls asking whether they can take an online DUI class to comply with court requirements for a DUI in California. The answer is, it depends.

Scenario #1 : You are a resident of California and have been convicted of a first-time DUI offense in California. Your license is suspended by the CA DMV. In order to remove the license suspension, the DMV requires you to complete the AB541 3-month DUI class. The DMV will not accept completion of a DUI class from another state, whether done in person or online. The class must be taken at a program approved by the county where the DUI occurred. Even though the court may have approved an of state program or an online DUI class to satisfy court requirements, the DMV will not under any circumstances, accept that class.

However, the court may allow you to take an out of state or online class if you travel for work out of state, or attend school out of state. However, you would only fulfill the court’s requirements, not the DMV’s requirements. if you want to remove the suspension, you would have to complete the 3-month class with a California approved provider who has a physical presence in the state.

Scenario #2: You are a resident of California and have been convicted of a first-time DUI offense in California. Your license is suspended by the CA DMV. In order to remove the license suspension, the DMV requires you to complete the AB 541 3 month DUI class. You decide to move out of state for a new job and intend on becoming a resident of that state. You learn that the new state cannot issue you a license because the CA DMV has a hold on your licenses. Once CA removes the suspension, then the new state can issue you a new license.

Solution: To remove that suspension of your CA license you must call the DMV Mandatory Actions Unit in Sacramento, CA (916-657-6525) and request a “1650 waiver packet.” The DMV will mail the packet to your address. You must fill it out and return it. You will have to show proof that you live at the new address, such as a utility bill with your name and current address. By returning the finished packet to the DMV you are waiving your privilege to drive in CA or to get a CA driver’s license. When CA lifts the suspension, the new state will also remove the suspension in the new state.

If you come back to CA within 3 years of the CA DMV processing the waiver and you want your CA license back, you will have to comply with the requirements that existed before, i.e., complete the 3 month class in CA. If you come back and apply for a CA driver’s license after 3 years, you won’t have to take the class.

Scenario #3: You are not a resident of California and have been convicted of a first-time DUI offense in California. Your license may or may not be suspended by the DMV. The court requires you to complete the AB 541 3 month DUI class. The court may allow you to take an out of state or online class if you live out of state or attend school out of state. You would fulfill the court’s requirements, but not the DMV. If for whatever reason, the DMV has a hold on your licenses, you simply complete the 1650 Waiver process as previously mentioned in this article.

This information is provided as a public service by Tom Wilson Counseling Center, and does not constitute legal advice or warrant accuracy. Please contact you CA attorney for legal advice regarding your particular legal and court requirements.

How to remove a suspension of your drivers license for a DUI in California

DUI in California, but live out of State? Remove a Suspension of Your Driver’s License if You Receive a DUI in California with a 1650 Waiver Packet.

Tom Wilson Counseling Center receives many phone calls asking whether they can take an online DUI class to comply with court requirements for a DUI in California. The answer is, it depends.

Scenario #1 : You are a resident of California and have been convicted of a first-time DUI offense in California. Your license is suspended by the CA DMV. In order to remove the license suspension, the DMV requires you to complete the AB541 3-month DUI class. The DMV will not accept completion of a DUI class from another state, whether done in person or online. The class must be taken at a program approved by the county where the DUI occurred. Even though the court may have approved an of state program or an online DUI class to satisfy court requirements, the DMV will not under any circumstances, accept that class.

However, the court may allow you to take an out of state or online class if you travel for work out of state, or attend school out of state. However, you would only fulfill the court’s requirements, not the DMV’s requirements. if you want to remove the suspension, you would have to complete the 3-month class with a CA approved provider who has a physical presence in the state.

Scenario #2: You are a resident of California and have been convicted of a first-time DUI offense in California. Your license is suspended by the CA DMV. In order to remove the license suspension, the DMV requires you to complete the AB 541 Program. You decide to move out of state for a new job and intend on becoming a resident of that state. You learn that the new state cannot issue you a license because the CA DMV has a hold on your licenses. Once CA removes the suspension, then the new state can issue you a new license.

Solution: To remove that suspension of your CA license you must call the DMV Mandatory Actions Unit in Sacramento, CA (916-657-6525) and request a “1650 waiver packet.” The DMV will mail the packet to your address. You must fill it out and return it. You will have to show proof that you live at the new address, such as a utility bill with your name and current address. By returning the finished packet to the DMV you are waiving your privilege to drive in CA or to get a CA driver’s license. When CA lifts the suspension, the new state will also remove the suspension in the new state.

If you come back to CA within 3 years of the CA DMV processing the waiver and you want your CA license back, you will have to comply with the requirements that existed before, i.e., complete the 3 month class in CA. If you come back and apply for a CA driver’s license after 3 years, you won’t have to take the class.

Scenario #3: You are not a resident of California and have been convicted of a first-time DUI offense in California. Your license may or may not be suspended by the DMV. The court requires you to complete the AB 541 32 Hour DUI class. The court may allow you to take an out of state or online class if you live out of state or attend school out of state. You would fulfill the court’s requirements, but not the DMV. If for whatever reason, the DMV has a hold on your licenses, you simply complete the 1650 Waiver process as previously mentioned in this article.

This information is provided as a public service by Tom Wilson Counseling Center, and does not constitute legal advice or warrant accuracy. Please contact you CA attorney for legal advice regarding your particular legal and court requirements.

Online Domestic Violence Classes Offered by Tom Wilson Counseling Center for Court Requirements

Tom Wilson Counseling Center is  now offering Online Domestic Violence Classes for court requirements or personal growth. These Online Domestic violence Classes have been developed to meet the needs of persons required to attend a domestic violence class but are unable to find a class due to work issues, family obligations or where there is limited access to licensed or approved providers. Our online classes have been accepted by most states, courts, judges, attorneys, and probation departments.

Tom Wilson Counseling Online Domestic Violence Classes are a convenient way to meet court requirements and begion a journey of personal growth. These low-cost classes are delivered completely online as a homestudy course. Telephone and email support is available. The goal of the Online Domestic Violence Class is to help you meet court requirements, improve relationships and stay violence-free.

Limited enrollment for the low-cost online classes begins early December, 2014. For enrollment information, call toll free at 1-887-368-9909, Monday-Friday, 9:00 A.M. to 5:00 P.M. Mountain Daylight Time (MDT).  

Alcohol & Substance Abuse Classes Online for Court

Do you need an online dui class, online alcohol class or online substance class for court ordered requirements? Tom Wilson Counseling Center has offered the largest selection of DUI classes online and Alcohol classes online for court requirements since 2004. Online classes and education available for DUI, DWI, OUI, OWI. Alcohol classes, Drug classes, Substance Abuse classes, Minor in Possession classes, Minor in Consumption classes, Relapse Prevention classes, Anger Management classes, Petty Theft classes, Shoplifting classes, Cognitive Self-Change, Thinking Errors, and Parent Education & Stabilization classes. All classes created and conducted by Tom Wilson, a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and Certified Prevention Specialist.

New Lower Price for Anger Management Online Class

ANGER MANAGEMENT CLASSES:

8 Hour Online Anger Management Class: $150.00

12 Hour Online Anger Management Class: $225.00

16 Hour Online Anger Management Class: $300.00

32 Hour Online Anger Management Class: $600.00 $480.00 (New Lower Price!)

Avoid Simple Mistakes when Selecting the Right Online Anger Management Class © Thomas Wilson

Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor; Internationally Board Certified Substance Abuse Prevention Specialist

If you are required to complete an anger management class, then taking an anger management class online is a great alternative for meeting your court requirements. The court often requires you to complete anger management classes before releasing you from supervision.

However, a simple mistake such as choosing the wrong class or choosing the wrong online program provider could get you into even more trouble with the court.  If you want to resolve your case quickly, avoid these common mistakes.
Mistake # 1: Enrolling in a class from a provider that does not have the proper credentials or is not accredited or approved to provide anger management counseling. 
Anger management classes are taught by professionals who are licensed in counseling and have several years of experience.  If you are unsure, ask for a copy of their license or credentials to provide to the court.   
Mistake #2: Enrolling in the wrong class.  Be sure to enroll in the right class that is required by the court. 
Normally these classes are called anger managment classes.  Remember that anger management classes are not the same as domestic violence classes, which can be 26 to 52 weeks in length.  If you are unsure or don’t know the exact name of the class, you should call the office of the program provider and ask for assistance. Licensed and credentialed course providers are happy to help you find the right class. 
Mistake #3: Enrolling in an online class without getting approval from your court or agency. 
A credentialed course provider will not encourage you to sign up unless you have gotten permission from the court or agency that requires the class.  Be sure you have permission from the court, agency or your attorney take the online class.  It’s always a good idea to call and get an OK. 
Mistake #4: Enrolling in the cheapest class. 
Just because the class is the cheapest, does not necessarily mean it will meet court requirements, or provide technical support. Some providers charge extra for certificates or other paper work required by the court. Inquire about all the cost involved in getting proof of enrollment, completion of certificates and mailing costs. Some providers make their money by charging inflated fees for services that are normally included at no cost by licensed or credentialed programs. 

Anger Management Class Online for Probation

Anger Management Classes Online

This class teaches participants specific skills to control anger and resolve conflicts with others. Participants learn the consequences of anger and aggression and how to recognize “early warning” signs and reduce risks for aggressive behavior. It also includes guidelines for regaining self control, de-escalating anger, using effective responses to criticism, constructive communication, steps to resolving conflicts and negotiating differences with others.

Also referred to as: anger online classes, online anger management, anger classes online, Anger Control Class, Anger Management Techniques, Anger Management Training, Rage Control Techniques.

http://www.tomwilsoncounseling.com/onlineam.html

We also offer Cognitive Self Change and Thinking Errors Classes http://www.tomwilsoncounseling.com/cognitive-self-change.html 

Tom Wilson is the founder of Tom Wilson Counseling Center. He has a Master’s Degree in Psychology with over 25 years of experience in counseling, training and consulting. He is a State Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor. He is the author of “Taming Anger and Aggression”, an anger management program which has been taught to hundreds of people at the counseling center over the last twelve years. He specializes in adapting evidence-based substance abuse prevention programs for delivery through the web and other electronic media.

Anger Class Online for Court Order or Requirement

Online Anger Management Classes and Conflict Management Classes

Register for Online Anger Classes

Online Conflict Management and Anger Management Classes for court with a Licensed Counselor. 8 hour, 12 hour, 16 hour, or 32 hour classes available. Also referred to as Anger Control, Anger Techniques, Anger Training, Rage Control, Conflict Management. Approved by courts, judges, attorneys, agencies, probation, parole, colleges, universities, and employers. Get court approval before enrolling for legal requirements.
All classes developed and monitored by Tom Wilson, a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor who is also a Certified Alcohol and Substance Prevention Specialist. Tom is the author of “Taming Anger and Aggression,” an anger management program which has been taught to hundreds of people at the counseling center and online. He specializes in adapting evidence-based substance abuse prevention programs for delivery through the web and other electronic media. Instructor credentials can be viewed here: www.tomwilsoncounseling.com
Contact us at support@twccsolutions.com or call Toll Free 1.877.368.9909 during office hours; Monday-Friday, 9am-5pm MDT/MST with questions. If you call before or after our regular office hours, please leave a message and we will return your call as soon as possible.

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Conflict Management Skills and Co-Workers

Be Careful What You Say to Your Co-workers

by Nettie Gray

If there is one thing I learned from bosses about dealing with your co-workers is that, at the end of the day, you are there for your job, not to make friends.

Anything that happens outside of your work, such as meeting new best friends, are bonuses. And so you should not feel too upset to the extent that it already affects your performance, if you do not have a close pal at work. 

Your colleagues did not choose you, nor did you choose them. So you have no choice but to deal with them and cooperate so you can satisfy goals you share.

Don’t let your heart out to anyone, anywhere.
Even when you are with your friends who are working for other companies, still you should be careful whenever you are venting frustrations about your office mates. You never know who is within hearing distance.

Keep thoughts to yourself. But if you feel you need to share so you can move forward, choose at least one person, that you trust your life with, to talk to. Well, again, it is best if that person is not your office mates. I have heard more than once employees laughing their heart out to another employee they have just met, without knowing that this person is much closer to the boss the other is hating.

Watch your comments.
When somebody starts a conversation about religion and politics, well then it is a signal that you should keep your mouth shut. You do not want to offend anyone so veer from these divisive topics. Use your sense of humor to escape this kind of talks.

If anything, you are not paid to engage in heated debates with your colleagues about issues outside of work.

Refrain from thinking evil.
So the employee occupying the cubicle next to you, is once again, absent. She appears the next day telling your boss about how ill she felt the other day so she did not made it to work. Even when your office mates are saying that she is just inventing stories, keep mum.

It is none of your business to meddle. In case the management finds out she’s taking her responsibilities for granted, it isn’t you who’ll be fired after all. As long as your co worker is doing no harm against you, ignore what others say, mind your own writing services Australia instead.

Even if you have been told that that person is drawing negative comments about you behind your back, you can’t let the negative vibes sap your energy. Remember your office mate for even the smallest of good things they have done for you, and you help yourself stop hating.

Get yourself out there.
And, remember, you do not have to be friends with everyone in the office. But you need to get along with them.  Don’t be that guy who always turns down invitations from his colleagues. There is nothing wrong going out with your coworkers once in a while. This way, you see the other side of them. Perhaps they seem weird and too stiff at work, but they too, can be cool outside the office.

This concludes that when you manage your anger well, you gain better judgement, you are less stressed, you communicate better, you have less disputes, and your relationships with your coworkers are healthier. 

Nettie Gray provides writing services in Australia.

Register for Anger Management, Conflict Management or Cognitive Self-Changes classes at http://www.tomwilsoncounseling.com.

Anger Management Class Online for Court

Avoid Simple Mistakes when Selecting the Right Online Anger Management Class 

Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor; Internationally Board Certified Substance Abuse Prevention Specialist

If you are required to complete an anger management class, then taking an anger management class online is a great alternative for meeting your court requirements. The court often requires you to complete anger managment classes before releasing you from supervision.

However, a simple mistake such as choosing the wrong class or choosing the wrong online program provider could get you into even more trouble with the court.  If you want to resolve your case quickly, avoid these common mistakes.
Mistake # 1: Enrolling in a class from a provider that does not have the proper credentials or is not accredited or approved to provide anger management counseling. 
Anger management classes are taught by professionals who are licensed in counseling and have several years of experience.  If you are unsure, ask for a copy of their license or credentials to provide to the court.   
Mistake #2: Enrolling in the wrong class.  Be sure to enroll in the right class that is required by the court. 
Normally these classes are called anger managment classes.  Remember that anger management classes are not the same as domestic violence classes, which can be 26 to 52 weeks in length.  If you are unsure or don’t know the exact name of the class, you should call the office of the program provider and ask for assistance. Licensed and credentialed course providers are happy to help you find the right class. 
Mistake #3: Enrolling in an online class without getting approval from your court or agency. 
A credentialed course provider will not encourage you to sign up unless you have gotten permission from the court or agency that requires the class.  Be sure you have permission from the court, agency or your attorney take the online class.  It’s always a good idea to call and get an OK. 
Mistake #4: Enrolling in the cheapest class. 
Just because the class is the cheapest, does not necessarily mean it will meet court requirements, or provide technical support. Some providers charge extra for certificates or other paper work required by the court. Inquire about all the cost involved in getting proof of enrollment, completion of certificates and mailing costs. Some providers make their money by charging inflated fees for services that are normally included at no cost by licensed or credentialed programs. 

Anger Management Classes for Football Fans

Football Fans need to keep their cool during football season

Tom Wilson Counseling Center – Anger Management

If you are attending a football game this weekend that includes fans from both teams you might want to bone up on your Anger Management skills.  It is important to remember that this is a game for entertainment but the addition of rowdy participants and alcohol could cause some tempers to escalate.  Keep these facts in mind if you feel your level of anger rising.


Definition of Anger

Anger is seen as the emotional response to actual or imagined provocation or threat. In these pictures, the railroad tracks represent anger, while the train represents aggression, or the physical response to anger.

Purpose of Anger

Anger, when it is controlled can provide the energy needed to solve a problem, stand up for one’s rights and help overcome obstacles to goals that have been temporarily blocked. However, when anger leads to aggression, anger is being misused.

Definition of Aggression

Aggression in relationships is any behavior or action intended to harm, control, or dominate others. Although anger can lead to aggression, most people do not resort to physical or verbal aggression.

How is it Different?

Aggression differs from anger because of the severity, intensity and long-lasting nature of it’s consequences.

Are We Born Aggressive?

Aggression is learned socially. Most aggressive behaviors are learned early in life and passed on from one member of a family to another. Other times aggressive behaviors are learned in one’s environment or culture.

Instrumental or Planned Aggression

Aggression without anger can be seen as a desire to exert control over another person rather than as a need to express anger. Examples include robberies, gang violence, organized criminal activity, and terrorism. In intimate partner relationships, making threats of violence, destroying personal property, controlling social contacts and taking control of financial resources are examples of a need for control.

Types of Aggression – “All I did was push him/her out of my face”

Physical Aggression or abuse includes: Pushing, shoving, hitting, slapping, grabbing, restraining, blocking exit, using a weapon, spitting, bumping into, biting, unwanted sexual or other physical contact.

Psychological Aggression or abuse includes: Name-calling, criticizing, threatening to harm self or others, threatening with a weapon, making unwanted phone calls, going to a place where someone works against their wishes, unwanted contact, controlling contacts with friends, checking up on someone, showing up at a person’s residence against a court order, calling a person stupid or other put downs, using body language to intimidate or scare them.

Direct Aggression

Direct physical, psychological or verbal acts.

Indirect Aggression (Passive-Aggressive)

Indirectly expressing anger by forgetting an important date or event. Being late, making a sarcastic comment, playing practical jokes, intentional inefficiency or “dragging your feet.” Indirect aggression is often accompanied by resentment.

Reactive Aggression

Self defense is an example of becoming aggressive for self-preservation. In determining your level of defensive aggression, you must consider the risks and consequences of defensive aggression.

Rage Reactions

Some persons may have such poor control over their anger, that they “see red” and lose control over aggressive feelings, not remembering what triggered them. These persons may have brain functioning problems and do not plan their reactions at all. They may require medical treatment in addition to anger management counseling.

ALL classes developed and monitored by Tom Wilson, a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor who is also a Certified Alcohol and Substance Prevention Specialist. Tom is the author of “Taming Anger and Aggression”, an anger management program which has been taught to hundreds of people at the counseling center over the last twelve years. He specializes in adapting evidence-based substance abuse prevention programs for delivery through the web and other electronic media.

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8 Hour Online Anger Management Class $150.00
12 Hour Online Anger Management Class $225.00
16 Hour Online Anger Management Class $300.00
32 Hour Online Anger Management Class $600.00